InRealLife45, I totally get your struggle with your T. I got really attached to my last T and she started acting a little like your T. I know you don't have this, but I have a dissociative disorder and I found out my last T was a big fan of Janina Fisher (Janina Fisher, PhD :: Welcome), and many of her rules for therapy (including no longer sessions) seem to have come straight from a paper on working with people with dissociative disorders. I'm wondering if your T is taking a page from Ms. Fisher too. I came to really dislike this Ms. Fisher even though I never met her, thanks to these rules. I'm pretty sure that my last T consulted her on my case and ended up deciding to terminate me as a client.