I spend more time looking around the room than I do at the therapist herself, so I'd notice a disturbance in the physical environment far sooner than I'd notice something like a hairstyle change. But if she dyed her hair or something I think I'd spend the entire session zeroed in on her head. Maybe she should do that.

She took something off her walls a few months ago and it threw me off, I think I asked her two or three times why the room felt threadbare.

It helps me adjust when she asks for my input on how she should style a wall or something and we take some time riffing interior design ideas. And it makes me feel useful/important when she implements my suggestions. "You can't kick me out because I am crucial to the integrity of your furnishings. Without me the entire structure of your feng shui would collapse." The three frames on that wall, the ones that tie your room together, the ones that keep your feng shui unruffled, would agree with me.

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