Sunshine and OP:

If no one's mentioned it yet, I would like to voice the idea that if the AA or NA meeting in your area turns out to be full of undesirables, sometimes other 12 step meetings draw a very different crowd. If there is a non-AA non-NA OPEN 12 step meeting, support may or may not be found there. In any case, an addict may want to avoid those who are on the 13th step until they get back with the program. If there's a predator, you may need to find another meeting and complain about him or her on the way out.