But it feels like you wanted a reply yesterday, which feels like it would have opened her up to another request today and tomorrow. Instead, she tried to set a boundary around your request to include the weekend and hold you in there.

But you pop out of the hold like a jumping bean and say it doesnt "count"? Like a toddler who wont go down for a nap. Newsflash - nobody is keeping count. The adults are gonna keep on doing what they need to do until the toddler wears herself out. Until the pain of staying the same becomes worse than the pain of changing.