My opinion is you should let him back in and try to resolve the feelings you have had.
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I started feeling my brothers negativity bringing me down so I stopped making effort to see them.
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Its possible he feels the same way. Maybe you are both feeling the same way toward each other. And you said he recently offered to help. That means something. Holding on to resentments is not good for you. I believe in forgiveness. Of course that can be complicated and sometimes you forgive but do not let someone back in your life because it is not healthy for you.
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The "paradox" is only a conflict between reality and your feeling of what reality "ought to be." -- Richard Feynman
Major Depressive Disorder
Anxiety Disorder with some paranoid delusions thrown in for fun.
Recovering Alcoholic and Addict
Possibly on low end of bi polar spectrum...trying to decide.
Male, 50
Fetzima 80mg
Lamictal 100mg
Remeron 30mg for sleep
Klonopin .5mg twice a day, cutting this back
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