I truly believe that I know what's best for my son. So until there's no alternative I'm choosing to treat him with love, understanding and self worth. As I as an adult became so ill that I could not function without meds, it may be a his future too, but I just don't believe powerful antipsychotic are the best treatment for him, or most medicated children. I do realize there are eland xceptions, and I don't judge other parents, but I'm going to trust myself in his best interest and decline medication but get him therapy to help him in a way that isn't going to potentially mess him up later