I have so much to say and so much to ask but don't know where to start. My wife finally asked to separate, I knew it was coming. Our marriage has been bad for a couple years now. I pushed for therapy for a while and we did try, but to no avail. So she asked to cancel that as well. Now I have many questions (house, kids, dogs, bills, cars, friends, $, ect.) And how to stop thinking of Her! I loved being married. Being a Father and Husband were my driving forces. Now I'm left worse than I was before and don't know where to turn for help.