I may not have been an active participant in your husband threads, but I have followed them all dilligently BM.
You ARE doing the right thing, and as we know, the right thing is not always the easy thing, infact during times of adversity, its usually thee most difficult thing.
Case in point; The Crucifxion. I'm sure that wasn't easy for Jesus to do.
Anyway, I just wanted you to know I support your decision 100% and will be keeping you in my prayers.