i am sorry you felt offended by someones remarks or insight. i hope you feel better, i understand how you feel because at one point in my life i was without a job for over 2 years, got help through an agency that got me back on my feet and am so thankful when i was put in the hospital after an accident. at one point i was so angry at my mother and dad for getting me help as that was how bad i felt, i thought everyone was trying to tell me i was crazy. well 30 years later-i am 53 now- i look back and feel so apologetic for the way i treated the people who tried to help me. i sometimes have a hard time forgiving some of the things that were other peoples fault, for some of the reasons why i am the way i am too. Depression is a friend of mine that i don't want to be friends with but always seems to creep in. I am on meds for it for years now too, hopefully you won't have to go through it too much longer.