I was hypersexual, too. I was married 11 years to a man who was unipolar hypomanic. We had great sex, wow! Now I'm older and my meds have taken away my sex drive, and I'm glad. I honestly think it's the meds, not my age, that have depleted it. In fact, after both my second and third divorces, I asked my doctor to spay me like a cat. Both doctors said "People can't be spayed." What they didn't tell me was, that if I took certain antidepressants, I'd lose my sex drive. I would have loved to do that many years before I knew about that. Cashart, in my case it wasn't that I was unfaithful to my partner -- I was unfair to myself, by hooking up with men who were very bad for me, were emotionally and/or financially abusive.