I wish 40 days of celibacy was a daunting task for my other half we've only had sex once since valentines day occasionally he encourages me to masturbate him, but he's to tired distracted to actually have intercourse.

I have a fairly high sex drive and when we were first together I was having an intimate moment when he came and got back in bed and proceeded to chat away about booking a holiday and tipped a load of magazines on top of the bed and me. I had to stop him and explain I was preoccupied but it had killed the moment so to speak so I now wait until he's out of the way