so, didn't get around to talking about any of it. She asked with 5 minutes left if there was anything else I had wanted to talk about. I told her that it was not a 5-minute topic, and that I would not be able to even intorduce it properly within the five minutes. I guess there were times I could have spoken about it in relation to what we were talking about in the moment, but I didn't know how to segway into it. :/ She was trying to get me to see that I have a lot of control of stuff that happens (both good and bad), and maybe that I should take credit for the good. I couldn't bring it up right then becuase it felt like it would have just been an excuse (at least she would have seen it that way). I dunno... Maybe I shouldn't tell her.