well another update apparently she isn't going to let this be over after all i developed a hernia at work i have a workers comp claim going for it and she heard about it and asked me about it and not to be rude i very briefly told her about it i wanted to yell at her what part of never speak to me again dont you understand or that's none of your business and she then left the room came back a few minutes later and another female coworker who i have know for a long time came in and she saw both of us and started singing why cant we be friends i almost laughed but held it in and left the room so i know she has been talking about me to others on day shift now should i go to HR about it i dont think they would be too happy with me since i have a workers comp thing going on now