((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Jan))))))))))))))))))))))))
Massive hugs for you, Jan, because I know how devistating it is when family turns nasty towards you. Not to that degree, but the hurt is the same, I believe. I'm sending TONS of positive everything your way--energy, hugs, love, luck--the works!

luck&love
(and hope things improve)
~muse