Thanks for the advice. I don't think that my partner would be prepared to go to counselling top try and work things out as we are only a year down the line. I'm just in a state where I want everything to be fine and my temper to just go away. I also have a habit of keep asking if everything is ok at the moment which I know is winding her up but I guess it is my own self consciousness which is making me do so. When I try to tell her how I'm feeling I just get attacked almost in that I'm being inconsiderate and pushing her away by asking. I almost think to myself I wish I was strong enough to just turn round and forget but I love her very much and that is not what I want to do.