Jan, I'm sorry you experience family struggles so much like mine.

I have a sister that hasn't talked to me for 3 years now... and in the past it's been as long as 8 years. My mom likes it when us siblings are at odds with each-- I think she "shines" at feeling as the "go between" person. so she will even make up stories to keep us apart from each other...... that's why "exclusions" are so very painful for me..... it hurts my heart.

I hope that you can stay strong... maybe all of us posting will help you to feel less alone-- excluded?... we are here for you and you can be in my family any time!

Jan--

mandy