I hope other people will comment on sibling relations. My sister in the recent past has said she prefers talking to emailing. Now, she's emailing her complaints about me, and won't talk about them on the phone. I feel really rejected, but this has happened before. My sister says we don't have that much in common, which is true, but a mean thing to say. She just wrote "Lucky you" because I have a b/f. She's in bad shape now, very depressed, and I know that, but I'm having a hard time with this. I'm going to discuss this issue with my therp on Tuesday. I know some people don't even speak to their siblings or vice versa. My sis and I used to have huge fights over the phone, but that has not happened since I dropped her from my life for about a year, about 10 years ago. She says I changed for the better after I let her back in, but "I say" it's her who changed. She stopped picking arguments and yelling at me. But I could sure use more advice on what to do? Anyone?
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