@ flowerbells

It's painful to have a sibling you don't get along with because it just seems natural that you should.

I have one sibling, a brother, I wish he were a sister sometimes I need a female friend. We argued all the time when we were kids. He was hyper as a child and was constantly destroying my things. As he grew older he became self-destructive. We grew up in an abusive home together. Our childhoods affected each of us differently because we are different people. There are many things we agree on, but we do not get along in general and he bullies me/likes to push my buttons unless he needs something. My life is pretty good compared to his. I seek professional help when I need it and he doesn't. He lives with my mom and the only time we talk is when I visit my mom. We can be in the same room for about an hour then the conversation intensifies.

I limit myself to two-hour visits once a month with my mom. My mom and I spend most of our visits on the phone because she will not do anything about the bullying. You might try to limit the time you spend with your sister (via email or in person) or even when you think about your sister.