I'm a lesbian, been friends with my wife since 3rd grade. We've been together almost 5 years. I'm having a really hard time giving her what she needs to climax. Which makes me feel bad. The angles and pressures she needs make my wrist hurt to the point I don't want to move it (I have carpal tunnel). On top of this she wants me to talk. I'm not comfortable talking. I try, but how many different things can you say? I've tried reading erotica, not a big visual porn fan, for ideas, but it doesn't seem to help. Then she has a very high libido, and she needs multiple orgasms each time. My libido is basically non-existent thanks to mental issues and meds. What can I possibly do? I feel horrible because I can't give her what she needs.
Sex is something I've always been uncomfortable with because of my past. I want to give her what she needs but I can't seem to. She winds up sexually frustrated almost everyday of the year.