Anyone else feel this way about discussing things with a male T?

I stopped seeing females because it felt like they were a little too focused on being empathetic and not at all focused on problem solving. I know these are gender stereotypes, but they happened to ring true in my experiences. All my female Ts ever wanted to do was talk about how I felt. I sought a male who has been better for me, but the downside is I feel like a male would be more judgmental of over emotionalism. I hate crying in front of guys because I feel like they're thinking, "Ugh. Women and their crying." I started tearing up last appointment, and he leaned closer and said, "It seems like this is really bothering you." I was thinking, "Ugh. Shut up. You weren't supposed to notice. I know you're thinking I'm a pathetic and melodramatic girl now." I haven't told him that part of the reason I'm so scared to go out into the real world is that I cry like 3 times a day, which makes being in public a problem. I think he would think, "Wow. How ridiculous."