Hello, I don't think you should feel guilty. His ex is his ex for a reason and he doesn't live with them so it sounds like there is nothing there. You shouldn't feel guilty for being with him. If it is a problem for you that he has children, I would talk to him about it. Perhaps if you meet his children and his ex and hear from them you will feel better about the situation? Good luck
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Allie
Diagnosed: Generalized Anxiety Disorder & Obsessive Compulsive Disoder. Previous: Borderline Personality Disorder.
I no longer qualify for a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder, but there will always be my borderline traits that I struggle with especially during times of great stress.
I've been working passionately as a therapist since December 2016
