Hi TJ, sounds like the
perfect setup for tomorrow then- you can complain to your friend about your flu and he can complain to you about his wife not listening

But seriously, sounding like visits from the crisis team are going a lot better, a lot less stressful?? Which is great, just try to make the most of them, although it sounds like you're not managing too bad right now??
Still, try to enjoy tomorrow, really good you're still keeping up the contact with your friend, and
if you are/were to be "on edge" it sounds like he's understanding, so hopefully you're not going to be worrying to much about that
Alison