Hi jmgrim22:
My wife and I are best friends and, as such, my wife takes priority with me over EVERYONE - unless she is grossly wrong in which case we would talk about it like two respectful friends.
She has DUMPED a few of her friends and would even dump any family members if a conflict arose between me and them and I would do the very same for her. This is our commitment and promise to each other after surviving a previous bad marriage where loyalty and honor did NOT exist.
good luck,
jim