Hello,
I recently got into a nasty text msg argument with a guy I've been seeing for the last 6 months. He is very hot/cold toward me and playing the field with some very lame girls, probably to protect his emotions. He is way below my league in terms of looks and profession - but what can I say, I liked him!

That being said, I know he finds me extremely attractive and respects how accomplished I am.

I finally couldn't deal with it anymore and lashed out via text during one of his "cold" periods (i.e., when he pulls away from me - weeks at a time). I told him he "used me" and called him a "piece of sh**" "motherf*cker that deserves to be punched" "d*ck"

He said this is all "coming out of nowhere" and "he doesn't appreciate my aggression" and that "name calling is ******"

He's forgiven me once before for arguing about why he pulls away. I am unsure if he will forgive me again. I feel guilty but I realize that he is not the right guy for me.

Has anyone else ever done this to a guy they've been seeing or boyfriend? Is there any way to broach this? I feel so guilty and ashamed.