He keeps saying really harsh things to me that I know isn't true because he doesn't want me to be in love with him. Throughout our whole relationship he always wanted attention, if he felt I wasn't showing him enough love he would get upset and assume I didn't love him. I always tried really hard to show him that I loved him but I think he has truly convinced himself that I am this really awful person. I know I am not, people always tell me I am one of the most nicest person they have ever met and I have a good heart. I always put others before myself... He wants that love and attention, he wants to feel appreciated. Other girls are not going to just offer that too him right away.... Why on earth he would think another female would want to be with him is beyond me. He doesn't have anything to bring to the table.....

I think he stuck by you for so long because you gave him all that attention. Now with three kids, he knows he's not going to get much of your time! I agree with the others. Get a lawyer so that you can file for support. He is a BIG BABY that never learned how to grow up. I also think that you should work on setting stronger boundaries and learning to say no instead of always being the one who is constantly giving. A relationship is give and take on BOTH sides. You do all the giving, and he does all the taking. I wish you the best.

Honestly he wasn't like this before. I don't know what happened to him but he suddenly changed. He is trying to live life like he was just before I met him but he isn't getting any younger. I have tried to understand what was happening but I've realized it's not possible.