These are all great suggestions. Nice to know there are other free spirits out there! I guess it's all a part of the journey. To find yourself, sometimes is a lonely adventure. After all, we came into this world as one, and will leave the same way. It's good to find comfort in being alone.
I like the suggestion about doing something that you enjoy. That is a good first step to finding happiness on a day to day basis.
About the where to live part...that's the most exciting part of the post. You get to choose where you want to live your life. If times are tough, maybe staying put and making steps to save and research is a great start. It may be tough with family dynamics, but you are fortunate to have the opportunity.
Wishing you all balance and harmony in all you do.