I've told my T I post on a therapy forum and some of the issues that affect me around it. I don't know actually if I've specifically said "Psychcentral" but I'm not personally concerned about it. I trust my therapist not to look if I ask her not to, but... I also operate on the basis that I don't write anything I couldn't bear to have everyone read... I try to live the open book life, for the most part.

I think it's very fair to ask him to read one thread that you print out for him (you can even just post the comments without the site-identifying info if you like) and ask him not to look further, and for him to respect your wishes. He's there to help you *with what you present* not to poke around in your personal life for material.

I don't think reputable therapists would muddy the waters by looking up clients here.