I guess no one answered this one because it is a hard one to answer. Only he can answer it. Unfortunately when there are so many lies on the table it is hard to know when he is telling the truth. It is important that both of you get help. Him for what ever it is he is covering up and you to keep your own self intact. Take care,
Carrie

<font color=blue>The important thing is this: to be able at any momeent to sacrifice what we are for what we could become.--Charles Du Bos