yep, that pretty much sums it up. It was ok for her to joke about, but not me. To be honest tho, the joke WAS starting to hurt my feelings, so thats partially why i put the note in the first place.

And in session she started 5 minutes late bc some random guy ran in and she talked to him for part of my session time and didnt apologize so I got mad and told her she should call AAA before session was over so they could be there to fix her tire by the end of session, bc they usually take 45 minutes to come out bc I had slashed her tire. She said she didn't believe me and she ignored me and session continued as always and she hugged me afterwards like normal and I had forgotten about the note so I text her it was a joke and just throw it away but she didnt reply so i assumed everything was cool, and she waited an entire week to have "the talk" with me about being really upset about what I had done with the note. So I in turn got upset bc if youre that bothered why did it take you a full week to bring it up, why act like everything was copacetic?

So..yea. It was a multilayered issue.