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Old Aug 25, 2014, 04:21 PM
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Originally Posted by IndestructibleGirl View Post
Hmmm. Did you ever outright ask her what her feelings towards you were? I mean, I know that you keep pushing for her to say she dislikes you now - but have you ever bounced the idea out there that she might have some complex sexual feelings towards you?

I don't know. To me it sounds like the cuddling up closely alarmed her because it stirred something for her. Something she could not deal with. Wasn't she also the T who said something like 'please don't touch my breast' or was that someone else??
she wont even admit that she has counter transference issues, (which she does have neg ct) admitting erotic counter transference would never happen even if she was experiencing it.

she used to say she loved me, but lately if i ask if she loves me she responds that "everything changes, nothing is ever the same." avoiding answering so i guess she doesnt love me anymore. but thats to be assumed, so .. ::shrug::
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