Ahh I get it the mental image I had was that her crotch would be unavoidably touching your back or your butt as you laid back snuggled into her arms, you guys reclining on the couch or whatever, and it just struck me as potentially very stressful and awkward. Sorry, I didn't mean to cast aspersions on the motives of your T and her hugs. The Hankster backwards hug that she did sounds a lot more therapeutic!