((((hugs))))

Ok, actually, I think that went well. She was careful not to say anything that could upset you, and that's a good thing. Maybe she really is foggy on some details..or maybe she recalls it differently but didn't want to confront you with her memory that way? IDK. That she is going to look through the photo albums, and you guessed she would correctly... that tells me things are still basically normal family dynamics for you? But to say things haven't changed?

I hope you feel good about sharing... secrecy can eat us up at times...
I sure understand making a decision in therapy and then for some reason, not following through on what you decided. I think it has to do with the support IRL when in session?

I wish you good things from this. If nothing else, you don't have to carry that secret from her any more.