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Originally Posted by CANDC
To tell you the truth, when you are having difficulty coping, I don't think friends is any help to you. Everytime you see him it is a trigger - better to let the wounds heal. If he still wants physical affection, that too is a trigger when you are forced to break up with someone.
A clean break could be your eventual path to freedom.
If you feel differently, I respect your opinion. My friend had fallen hard before and a clean break was the only way they started the healing process.
Therapy is good and so are all those activities. Especially ones where you socialize with people if that is comfortable.
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It seems like he is trying to ease the pain by offering friendship but it doesn’t make me feel any better. I will never forget the things I did and what I saw even after we broke up, all the mistakes and everything that I did for him. The only right thing to do is just make a clean break - it just hurts too much and I wish he'd respect that.