Just to make myself clear, I fear I came off a bit wrong in the first post: I relate very well with men. I used to have mostly male friends for a long time when I was a child, and I still have lots of male friends (more women than men now, though). I talk with them about sex and everything as if they were girlfriends, lol. But that's different, because I know we're friends, and I know they value me for who I am.