My boyfriend is very attached to his family. Which is normally a good thing, but I am afraid that I cannot deal with it anymore.
He wants us to marry but I think I will breakup before it is too late.
He speaks to his parents that live I other country 3 to 4 times a day. If one day he doesn't call, they start calling me at work. They know he's fine, but anyways they need to be in permanent contact.
He puts them as absolute priority, and every time we travel to visit them. They spend the entire time going to the mall (which I hate). We've been last time for 3 weeks, the trip cost me a fortune and we couldn't spend one day together. I will never go there again.
I could even deal with all this, but few weeks ago I had a little disagreement with his brother, which was a small thing and we resolved it in 2 minutes.
My bf got hysterical and start shouting at me saying that I would destroy his relationship with his brother, that I'm just a f*** woman and that he is his brother. They he would never allow any f*** woman to get between him and his family. It was totally exaggerated from him. I always have to say amen to all his family needs. I feel like I mean nothing to them. It is all about them.
Am I overreacting? Am I a *****?