Contrary to the myths floating around penis size is not the primary issue when it comes to stimulating a woman. Tenderness, touch, foreplay, and stimulation of the clitoris is really what counts. My husband is a great lover not because of his penis size but rather because he takes time to see that I am thoroughly aroused and ready before he enters. What comes before the main event for me is a lot more important than the main event itself. Of course I love the feel of him inside of me but that is not the real determining factor. Sorry to be so frank but a lot of men seem so insecure about this stuff when in fact they are perfectly capable of pleasing a woman just fine the way they are