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Old Aug 26, 2014, 04:33 PM
CalmingOcean CalmingOcean is offline
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I have 4 dogs and I can tell you, super rewarding, there is no love like that of an animal, but please for the sake of the animal just make sure you are ready to take in an animal.

I work with rescues and I'm co-founder of an organization that helps rescues and sometimes the worst cases of neglect are the ones that appear to love the animal so much.

When they say dogs need a walk everyday, this isn't just because it is physically good for them, mentally they need is as well. They need socialization- this could help you get out more but, to share a personal story, if you are anything like my husband, you could mess a dog up royally.

He got a puppy about the same time he went into a major depression. For 2 years that pup was his 'best friend', but for 2 years that dog lived a very reclusive life alongside my husband (before we met btw). Slowly, that dog went crazy (mind you, you have to pay attention to what breed, even a mutt, will work with your life style)- a heeled, does not do good not able to run and 'herd'. I came into the picture when Rascal (the dog) was 6. He is ten now and I still work with hm constantly, he will never be 'fixed', and many a fights my husband (then bf) got into over how he 'raised' Rascal.

Just be aware. Do your research on dog psychology, look into obedience training, know the dog has to keep busy from going crazy just like us (certain breeds obviously more so than others). Maybe look into volunteering with local rescues or shelters? See if they have a foster program? That is how I found my babies

On the plus I owe a lot to my dogs. Because they pick up on your mood and emotions (like little kids) I learned to steady my moods in front of them... In a way they kept me sane.

I wish everybody in the world would own a dog, but I also wish everyone who owns a dog damn well knows how to take care of it. (Not implying that you wouldn't- I have just seen too much neglect of these innocent creatures to take this subject lightly).
Thanks for this!
doglover1979