Hi,

I'm so sorry you are feeling so miserable right now.

Your mother sounds like an insenstive clod.

I think enlisting your ex's aid in helping your d lose weight in a very good idea. Also, have you tried getting her involved with a gym?

Your mother said and did a lot of insensitive things last night... that doesn't prove you are crazy, it proves the people that raised you (HER!) are crazy.

I hope you are hanging in there. It was nice chatting with you last night.

M