Hello and welcome to PC! I am sorry to hear your boyfriend has said things like that to you, that must be very hurtful to hear. Have you tried speaking to him about this? There is no reason he should be ashamed of you, no matter your race. If his friends have a problem with this then they are not friends he should have.
I hope you can work this out with him and that he can see that he is hurting you by taking on his friend's racism.
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Allie
Diagnosed: Generalized Anxiety Disorder & Obsessive Compulsive Disoder. Previous: Borderline Personality Disorder.
I no longer qualify for a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder, but there will always be my borderline traits that I struggle with especially during times of great stress.
I've been working passionately as a therapist since December 2016
