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Old Aug 27, 2014, 04:52 AM
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I do not believe someone would bash anyone that had this pain in childhood. I experienced molestation as a very young girl. I'm not experiencing any lack of "chemicals" that I am aware of. I do have an understanding what the brain is doing and know those initial feelings of attachment or the high is just that. Many times it is not just about sex. People are making decisions about their life while on that high..
which could be consequential to their partner and children.
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“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge