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Originally Posted by hankster
Sounds like she needs therapy. I mean, she needs help for her situation of being a human adult - twitching her nose isnt going to magically fix things anymore. If she wants things to change, she might have to take action on her own behalf, even if it means giving up her identity as sweet and non-confrontational. She is trying to bully you into using your time with your t - ie spending your money - to solve her problem - how sweet is that? Been there done that.
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No, it's not like that at all. She didn't ask me to do anything, I just want to give her some help because she is my friend and I hate to see her like this. Nothing major, just more along the lives of what kind of treatment plan should her husband be on (doesn't sound like much of one right now). She just got through a battle with cancer, works full time and has 2 small kids. She doesn't have time for therapy on top of all that. She is aware she may have to ask him to leave if it comes to that, I was just wondering if anyone had used some of their time to ask advice for someone else in a situation worse than their own. I can spare the time right now. But I didn't know how a T or a psychiatrist respond.