I was thinking about how Rhapsody's post was relevant to the question that the original poster asked and on a second read through this bit struck me:

> Dr. Douglas Weiss has spoken on this form of addiction and how it can often lead to problems with a real person (if and when) we use manual masturbation instead of a person for our sexual pleasure.....

Dr. Douglas Weiss is opposed to masterbation because he views it as a form of addiction that prevents people bonding to their partner because of the lack of sex glue?

> he explains this happens due to the fact that our bodies were made to connect mentally and visually with that which see and believe to be our sexual pleasure at the moment of orgasm.... this is referred to as SEX GLUE.

Referred to as SEX GLUE by who? I've never heard of that before. Who does he reference as talking about Sex Glue? Where are the scientific studies that back up the notion?
What message is the poster meant to take from this?

Its my fault I can't orgasm with a partner because I've been doing something so unnatural as masterbating???

Or do you just mean to suggest that she should look at her partners eyes while she is masterbating...