(((jinnyann)))
What a hard situation.

I wish I knew some answers. I don't suppose you can do couples therapy? (Seems like men are always opposed to that though.) I want affection and love too, and I know I'd be unhappy without it. If there's no chance things will improve, maybe you would be better alone. Explore all options first though. Maybe you guys could talk it out with a counselor....
Sorry I can't offer more help. That sounds so hard.
Sidony