Brasucasulu, I'm speechless, too, just like Hankster. You deserve better. Plain and simple. It may be hard to break away, but this guy does not have your best interests at heart. He's treating you like a second class citizen. And that's wrong, all the way to core. Very very wrong.

The best that can be said about him is that he's a racist. The evidence seems to point to the idea that he may be a cheater who's playing the race card to cover up his scandalous behavior. Whatever the reason, his behavior is wrong and he is treating you badly.

Bottom line: You deserve better. I hope you have the strength to break away from him.