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Old Aug 27, 2014, 04:56 PM
elmonta33 elmonta33 is offline
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I've married last year, I met my wife during a work in Africa, we had a very short relationship before getting married. She Joint me 4 months ago in the Netherlands, when she came I thought she will be able to integrate very quickly but unfortunately I've realised that she can't speak not even fair English but also she lacks communication skills. If any of my friends came to visit she keeps quiet and not trying to converse with not only men but also women. Simply she can't make friends. Also, the main problem is that she is not trying to improve her language to be able to depend on herself on her daily activities e.g shopping, seeing family doctor. Also, we do not have anything in common that we can talk about like literature and politics, even general knowledge. Because of this I don't feel happy and I'm really thinking to divorce though she is pregnant now. Would you please give some advices noting that we are from the same ethnicity!