Heck if i know...beg? IDK... You have to ask your therapist, or it least talk to him/her about your needs. I've told my T that i want him to be more nurturing. Last T said I elicit those responses in him; he said i brought out the 'mother' in him. Come to think of it, I've elicited that behavior in others as well. hmmm

Nurturing is intoxicating to me. Does it feel good to you, or is it threatening in some way?