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alexandra_k said:
Referred to as SEX GLUE by who? I've never heard of that before. Who does he reference as talking about Sex Glue? Where are the scientific studies that back up the notion?
What message is the poster meant to take from this?

Its my fault I can't orgasm with a partner because I've been doing something so unnatural as masterbating???

Or do you just mean to suggest that she should look at her partners eyes while she is masterbating...

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Ok - I am not pointing fingers at any one just stating the facts......

Any person (male or female) who masturbates often for sexual release can be creating future problems for them and their life long partner, for they are setting their body and mind eye up to sexually connect with some thing else other than the person they love.

AND......... YES - if you are to masturbate -
do it with EYE WIDE OPEN and look your partner directly in the EYES at the moment of sexual release - your orgasm.

You do NOT know what you are missing until you try this EYES WIDE OPEN thing..... it is an physical, emotional and spiritual coming together of that I could NEVER put into words, yet I have felt it, boy have I ever felt it.
....... WOW!! BAM!! FIREWORKS!! CHRISTMAS in JULY!!

Dr Weiss is a psychologist with a degree in sexual dysfunctions.... and he him self has had to over come a sexual addiction of porn & masterbation that always destoryed his marraige - So I would say that he has the facts from both medical knowledge / studies and personal experience.

YOU can LOOK his name up on line - it is every where's: Dr. Douglas Weiss

Here is a LINK to some of his books..... I have most of them.

LINK: http://tinyurl.com/28hb9t