I recall the time my t and i were talking about me not finding my place in my community. She said that when I will find the right people I will feel connected. She said that eventually I will find it. And so it was. As I developed an identity I began to be drawn to people who share similar interests (yeah, I finally knew what my own interests are...) and indeed I now feel more of a sense of connection. In fact, I had to go away on business for ten days. I was so down....all I kept thinking was my neighbors, my friends, the people back home...oh how I missed the connections....