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January said:
I don't want to seem rude or judgemental, but I wonder if your friend is dishonest with her t in other ways.

Jan

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She doesn't seem to see it as something dishonest. She is using it to help her review the sessions.
BTW, she's more like an acquaintance than a friend. Funny, I'm remembering now how it all began...She's been betrayed by her previous t....long story....recently she began seeing another t and before going for her first session she called me to chat about what she would talk about in session. In passing, I said, gee, if your session was taped I could give you some feedback...
Though I think that her having been betrayed by her previous t has made her a bit untrusting....
And as I'm writing I'm remembering her former husband was quite an abusive personality, and there were many many instances where he said things and later denied having said them....he said he was going to throw her down the stairs, so she called the cops and when they came her husband denied having said anything....I think the idea to record stuff stems from having had so many experiences where her reality was denied. The recordings are a safety net for her. Once recorded, no denial.