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Originally Posted by filthylessons
Falls upon deaf ears. (Thanks for that, David Bowie.)
I need to get this out- so I'll start the easiest way I can think of.
I've been labelled: easy, slut, *****. My own fiance has told me that I am easy and I make myself a target for opportunistic men. We are very adventurous sexually and try lots of things, and he has admitted to me on more than one occasion that he likes to think of me that way because it turns him on. Yet, he bashes me for it when his penis is no longer calling the shots.
I enjoy casual sex when single. I enjoy having friends-with-benefits relationships, I like variety... if that makes me 'easy', so be it I suppose...
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You asked so here goes don't be mad. Honestly I think your problem sounds more like your self esteem, why the hell are you wasting your time with a jerk who calls you a slut basically? You say he enjoys thinking of you that way- it turns him on- essentially being abusive to soemone he is ment to care about turns him on- bad news- big red flag, dump the jerk. I am hoping by bashing you you only mean verbally but honestly if he gets off on cruelty I'd get away before it becomes physical cos it sounds like he would enjoy that. In short the guy is telling you he has no respect for you and he likes being mean to you/thinking you are less than him. Hope you can take that as something to help you and not be hurt by it.
